Resistance to change

You may be resisting change because you hold onto an idea of perfection in a relationship. You could have an idealized version of reality that's unattainable. It might help to put some distance between a beautiful fantasy and consider objective reality of the situation. Real life embraces both light and shadow.

You could be feeling trapped in a mental prison of self limiting beliefs. It may require a new perspective to break the chains of self imprisonment, even if it means hanging upside down for a bit.

You could be worried that your independence or finances will be affected if you allow changes to unfold. Some creative thinking and clever planning may be needed to ensure financial stability and independence.

Decks used: Crow Tarot, Urban Crow Oracle.